Getting engaged is one of the most exciting times in a young couple’s lives; you’ll not only be planning one of the most special days of your lives together, but you’ll also be planning for the life you are about to share. One of the best steps you can take when you first get engaged is to have a talk with both families to make sure everyone is on the same page on the wedding budget, guest list, location and traditions. This can be especially helpful if the two families may have opposing views on how your wedding day should be planned.
Wedding Budget – Planning a wedding budget can start off a bit awkward. It’s always important to know who is able to pay for what, and how much each family can contribute. While it used to be customary for the bride’s family to pick up the majority of the bill, wedding expenses have become less one-sided in the past few years. Both the groom’s family as well as the bride and groom themselves are more willing to help out with the cost.
Guest List – In a perfect world, only the bride and groom would get to decide who to invite to their special day. However, when families are contributing thousands of dollars to make sure your big day is so special, it’s only fair to allow them a say in who is attending. Make sure your guest list falls in line with your budget, however, since each guest can add anywhere from $50-300, or more, to your final bill.
Location – Location shouldn’t be too much of a concern for most couples, since it’s very common to want to get married in one of three places: either your current residence, your fiancé’s hometown or your own hometown. For other couples, however, location can be a point of contention, since some families may be out of the state or even country. It’s best to decide location in the beginning of planning, and to make sure both families can voice their concerns early on.
Traditions – This is another great talk to have with your families, since cultural and familial traditions are a big part of any wedding. Speaking with both families separately may be the best way to start, and if there are any disagreements, you may need to sit both families down and start making some compromises. Make sure both families have your best interest in mind, and are willing to bend a bit. Keep in mind this isn’t just a start of a new life for you and your fiancé, but a new start for two families to become one.
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